Parents going through a divorce mean that their children have to adjust to changes in just about every aspect of life. Many children who are going through this will look toward familiar adults to help them. Because of this, parents may want to keep the same nanny with the children.
One of the first decisions is whether the nanny will work with the children when they’re with either parent. This leads to a need to determine who is going to cover the pay and any benefits for the nanny.
Stability is critical for the children
The nanny will likely become a source of stability for the children. It’s critical for both parents to have an agreement written out that outlines the nanny’s new schedule, responsibilities and compensation. It may be difficult to keep things consistent between both homes, but having a master calendar might make it easier for the nanny to ensure they’re getting the children to all necessary activities.
Communication is important
Parents should also talk with the nanny about what to expect behaviorally from the children. Divorce can bring about emotional shifts, and a nanny who’s in the loop is better equipped to support the kids and reinforce consistency between homes.
The goal is to ensure the children remain cared for by someone they trust while keeping adult matters appropriately separate. A thoughtful approach to the nanny’s role can help maintain a sense of normalcy for everyone involved.
Everything related to the children should be covered in the parenting plan so there aren’t any misgivings about what should happen. Working with someone familiar with how to set things up may be beneficial. It’s critical that every point in the parenting plan is handled in the manner that reflects the best wishes of the children.